"Jem was really open in sharing her knowledge about sexual energy, how to ignite it and move it around the body. She offered a beautiful energy session which left me feeling blissful and alive."
"After a session with Jem I felt more alive than I had in years. Worth every penny! I feel stronger and more independent in my body and I went home and was able to share that with my partner too. After giving him a loving, sensual massage we were able to have a very frank and honest conversation about where we are individually and in partnership. I’ll definitely be coming with my husband for a couples session. Thank you Jem."
"Afterwards I remember laying on the lawn saying to you ‘its all about the heart’. What you did was lower the centre of energy during the vajra healing and then gently stimulate erotic pleasure, which you then moved up to my heart centre. Opening my heart so that sex and heart were paired. What I’ve always tended to do in an aroused state is to fixate on the lower centre arousal. The primary focus being ‘getting off’ and moving to ejaculation. This has always been the more compelling pathway. Thus shutting down the heart and trying to maximise the genital arousal.
What I so loved about the state I was in during your session was that the heart stayed open and remained the centre of the experience. There is just no comparison between the two. And the magical thing is that while focussing on the genitals shuts down the heart experience, positioning the heart at the centre doesn’t impair the ‘lower’ pleasure. It enhances it. I had concrete experience of this for the first time, which allows the possibility of being able to repeat it in intimate connection with a partner."
"I've been working with Jem since mid 2017 on a regular basis. I was looking for a Tantrika willing to take a novice on a true Tantric journey. Whilst many people advertise Tantric Massage, mostly I'd found this was a cover for a quick massage and a 'happy ending', with little more than a nod to a true Tantric experience. Jem was different. She treated me with respect, honesty and clarity about where her and my boundaries were. We discussed in detail the work that we would do together, if I chose to work with her.
As an older guy, I was ready to leave behind the quick fix of 'instant sex' and instead search for a broader vision of sexuality that would provide greater pleasure and arousal, and an ability to bring this newly discovered energy to my life and enhance the way that I relate to other people. For too long, with a focus on my own business, I've been very concentrated in head stuff, with little room for heart opening or allowing my sexual energy to flow.
In just a few months I have experienced a tremendous change in what I feel. Through breathwork, touch, massage and more, Jem has enabled me to access energy pathways and feelings I never knew I had. As trust has developed between us this has allowed me to experiment and open myself to new experiences. I can't speak highly enough of Jem. She is gifted, honest, skilled and is a living example of how pleasure can be generated inside oneself and then shared out there in the world.
I set out on a journey without knowing what the ending was. Now I know I am on a journey that has no end. And I hope that Jem will continue to be my Tantric guide, taking me ever deeper into this wonderful world where my life can blossom fully in the knowledge that I can express who I truly am.
If you are intrigued by what Tantra can offer, or are searching for more meaning and a deeper experience of sexuality, then I strongly recommend you meet with Jem."
"I have been doing tantra on-and-off for the last 10 years, having worked with 4 or 5 different practitioners in different countries. What Jem does is another level. The energy she brings to the work is the key difference. I was blown away by the experience and its completely new and fresh each time."
"I just feel so looked after by Jem and her heart-focussed approach to Tantra."